Filter results

Results (2546)

Sort by:

Select all Select all

Page 1

Khara Croswaite Brindle - Understanding Ruptured Mother-Daughter Relationships

No access

Select

Khara Croswaite Brindle

Understanding Ruptured Mother-Daughter Relationships

2023

Results in this title

Preface

„… : LCSH: Parent and adult child—Psychology. | Mothers and daughters—Psychology. | Alienation (Social …” „… Praise for Understanding Ruptured Mother-Daughter Relationships: Guiding the Adult Daughter’s …” „… for healing the wounds of maternal estrangement and difficult mother-daughter relationships. Croswaite …”

1 Estrangement Defined S. 1-14

„… estrangementenergycycle.com.Warning Signs for DaughtersHow would you respond to each question? Never–Sometimes– Often–Always1. You …” „… the next. This book is about mother-daughter relationship rupture and estrangement for adult women and …” „… child’s experience. To rectify this important perspective, we wish to focus on the daughters who choose to …”

2 Long-Term Effects of Estrangement S. 15-24

„… pos-sibility of a relationship rupture between mother and daughter can have significant and long-lasting …” „… , ■ feelings of blame, ■ feelings of failure, and ■ social avoidance.The estranged daughter may report strain …” „… ■ flashbacks.With prolonged symptoms and repeat triggers for grief, the stress of the mother-daughter relationship …”

12 Deeper Work S. 85-92

„… skills can help them take the next steps in healing from mother-daughter relationship rupture and …” „… generation. As women work hard to understand their mother-daughter estrangement and the abuse or trauma that …” „… daughters. The concern is that they will unwittingly damage their daughters, causing the cycle to continue …”

3 Assumptions About Estrangement S. 25-32

„… In taking a closer look at mother-daughter relationship rupture, we would be doing women a …” „… , parents are able to pinpoint signs that their sons and daughters were not happy with the relationship, but …” „… to estrange from mom takes significant time and energy for a daughter. Contrary to assumptions that …”

5 Introduction to the Estrangement Energy Cycle S. 41-44

„… protect her physical, emotional, and mental health within the mother-daughter relationship.After gaining …” „… ambivalence about the mother-daughter relationship, including questioning her own part in it not feeling …” „… daughter’s worthiness of love and affection from mom to a point where she tries even harder to please mom …”

19 Life After Estrangement S. 127-130

„… mother-daughter relationship, and recognizing the story a daughter tells herself about her relationship with her …” „… mother. A negative story focused on powerlessness can keep an adult daughter feeling stuck, whereas a …” „… life after estrangement looks like for our nine adult daughters featured throughout this book, in …”

10 Grief and Loss S. 71-74

„… rest, and a focus on connect-ing with her daughter in healthy ways. Not only did Kathryn feel less …” „… stressed and hurt at the holidays; her relationship with her daughter improved, with her daughter …” „… redirect her energy into creating holiday traditions with her chosen fam-ily for both her and her daughter …”

18 Dating and Estrangement S. 121-126

„… romantic partners. One of the biggest challenges for adult daughters estranged from their mothers is …” „… talk about the ongoing fears adult daughters may have, related to building a life with romantic …” „… Daughters, it’s the story women tell themselves that either keeps them stuck in powerlessness or supports …”

20 A Final Look at Estrangement Energy S. 131-132

„… is not the goal of mother-daughter relationships—or any parent-child relationship for that matter …” „… her daughter, estrangement becomes an option, however difficult it may be. This response serves to …” „… ability to thrive in the present, with or without a healthy mother-daughter relationship. This is the gift …”

8 Relationship Rupture S. 57-60

„… the mother-daughter relationship that are deeply dissatisfying, traumatic, or hurtful, recognizing …” „… relationship patterns, and their motivation to disrupt the pattern in their mother-daughter relationship. A …” „… incident that threatens to further damage or harm the client or her hopes for the mother-daughter …”

9 Therapeutic Tools for Estrangement Energy S. 61-70

„… various reasons. Once an adult daughter moves forward with the decision to pursue estrangement from her …” „… milestones with her own young daughter. To keep her anxiety in check, she learned the thought-stopping …” „… technique (see Exercise 9.6). This allowed Summer to stay present for her daughter in managing her anxiety …”

Appendix A S. 133-134

„… 133Appendix AWarning Signs in the Mother-Daughter RelationshipAPPENDIX AWARNING SIGNS IN THE …” „… MOTHER-DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIPFigure A.1. Warning Signs in the Mother-Daughter Relationship …”

17 When Someone You Know Is Estranged S. 107-120

„… some common questions and experiences for support per-sons of an adult daughter (or son) who is …” „… inevitably in a verbal fight with either her mother or her daughter by the time the visit was over. Kathryn …” „… placed on both her and her daughter.2. Recognize That the Body RemembersTrauma events have a way of …”

6 Cycle of Abuse S. 45-50

„… eventual mother-daughter re-lationship rupture. By no means is this an exhaustive list; however, here are …” „… daughter is a tumultuous one, to say the least. The daughter may re-spond by acting out and seeking …” „… daughter may question whether she made the right choice with mom, much like Regina did as a young adult.46 …”

Index S. 159-164

„… , 108, 140It Didn’t Start with You (Wolynn), 47Difficult Mothers, Adult Daughters (Anderson), 8, 121 …” „… considerations, 10–12; describing estrangement, 1–2; mother-daughter estrangement, 6–9; physical and emotional …” „… , warning signs in, 108; for daughters and mothers, 7–8, 133; panic attacks and, 129; watching your warning …”

References S. 157-158

„… Editions, 1st ed.). Psychology Press.Anderson, K. C. L. (2018). Difficult mothers, adult daughters: A guide …” „… . (2008). Will I ever be good enough? Healing the daughters of narcis-sistic mothers. Atria …”

13 Redefining Self-Worth S. 93-94

„… amount of work related to their mother-daughter estrangement and find them-selves moving energetically …” „… daughters, generation after generation.For Nina, Enid, and Regina, embracing their self-worth meant …”

4 A Woman’s Worth S. 33-40

„… 33A Woman’s Worth 4lCHAPTER 4A WOMAN’S WORTHThe significance of the mother-daughter bond has been …” „… mother-daughter bonding through celebrations of its strength, its sweetness, and its importance in shaping …” „… daughters as the next generation of wives, lovers, and mothers. Traits are passed on, behaviors are …”

14 Revisiting the Cycle S. 95-98

„… mother-daughter relationship for the better, or a separation and reworking of a woman’s identity as an estranged …” „… daughter. This shared desire for change is why many women pursue therapy, if they have the means. As a …”

11 Discovering Sense of Self S. 75-84

„… you hold (e.g., wife, mother, daughter, artist, employee, volunteer).Step 3: Inside the head of your …” „… Cher unexpectedly, was how her anxiety was impacting her own young daughter. Summer struggled to slow …” „… professional milestone, Summer felt she was solidifying her identity as a positive role model for her daughter …”

About the Author S. 165-166

„… with her daughter or indulging in gluttonous, gluten-free desserts with her family. …”

15 Treating Men Who Are Estranged S. 99-100

„… focuses on adult women and the es-tranged mother-daughter relationship, there is the possibility that you …”

Appendix C S. 137-152

„… logic, what do you hear or see? What needs to happen to support your autonomy in the mother-daughter …” „… of your drawing, write words that describe the roles you hold (e.g., wife, mother, daughter, artist …”

7 Questioning S. 51-56

„… mother-daughter relationship? What are your next steps to remain grounded and in control of your own actions …”

doi.org/10.5771/9781538174043

No access

Select

Mary Lawlor

Fighter Pilot's Daughter

2013

Results in this title

2 Frannie’s Days of Yore S. 39-48

„… 2FRANNIE’S DAYS OF YOREAs a child, Mary Pearce, my sister Sarah’s daughter, thought hergrandmother …” „… is evident in accounts of his daughter. Nor,in the photographs, does she look anything like a …” „… daughtershave learned to pose for the camera like she always has, adding a so-phisticated disinterest to the mix …”

14 Transition Out of America S. 165-176

„… stringy daughters,were likely to get caught in. We didn’t have the weight or substance toland a happier …” „… play and secretsharing was Poppy, Sandy and Philip’s second daughter. She and I werethe same age and …”

Preface

„… Congress Cataloging-in-Publication DataLawlor, Mary, 1949–Fighter pilot’s daughter : growing up in the …” „… met. Their stories helped meshape my own story in countless ways. In writing Fighter Pilot’s Daugh-ter …” „… and Jim Rat-tenbury helped me with the title, and Alice came up with “FighterPilot’s Daughter.” Mostly …”

22 Showdown with Frannie S. 239-246

„… shethought was inhabiting and influencing me. I was still her daughter, thestudious kid who had wanted to be …” „… afterward, Jack would translate the contents of Stelman’s mes-sage to me in joking terms: “Your daughter’s …”

17 Following European Politics S. 193-206

„… was visible, but itdidn’t necessarily follow that of the parents. A sergeant’s daughter washead of the …” „… kept so long as daughter of the Virginhad faded dramatically. The Virgin herself, like a memorable …” „… was shape-shifting, andI only knew her glancingly.Eventually I met Stella Soulé, daughter of an …”

3 The Coming of the Cold War S. 49-58

„… man’s man, disappointed butnevertheless charmed at the birth of twin daughters, was demoralizedwhen yet …” „… growing brood, although there are cues in the photo-graphs. Walking along the beach with a daughter in …”

25 Lost Days S. 263-274

„… form,manners, the image of drunken daughters. But after a brief restrictionwe were set free to do whatever we …” „… unsorted, untestedideas, I was still their daughter, their progeny. The arguments andactions of Paris held …”

4 Waiting Out Korea S. 59-74

„… some-thing to do with his daughter Margaret. Somebody insulted her singingvoice. He didn’t have a plan to let …” „… understand the president’s policies in terms of his daugh-ter’s voice. It was the kind of logic she was drawn …”

12 Saint Brigit/Bardot S. 149-152

„… daughter of a Druidpriest. Raised to be a priestess, Brigit instead became a Christian nun.Her story is …”

28 The End of the Cold War S. 293-308

„… compliant, resistant, ambivalent daughter.THE END OF THE COLD WAR 297I went up to Noank when I had to, for …” „… four daughters and no sons.Meanwhile Frannie was thrilled I would soon have a PhD. Shethought it …”

16 At Play in the Fields of Empire S. 187-192

„… daughters and sonsof the Army, but they were far more sophisticated than any of thepeople we’d gone to …”

Introduction: The Pilot’s House S. 1-22

„… college-age daugh-ters to identify with socialist ideology. Middle-class Americans nowdon’t generally fear our …” „… Lawlor-Walsh family during those years andabout my own formation as a daughter of the Cold War. Soon …”

23 May 1968 S. 247-258

„… England, had not put half the constraints on her daugh-ter that Liza and I had grown up with. She had …”

doi.org/10.5771/9781442222014

S.T. Haggerty - Norman Rockwell's Models

No access

Select

S.T. Haggerty

Norman Rockwell's Models

2023

Results in this title

7 Like a Daughter S. 113-136

„… Like a Daughter7113C H A P T E R 7L I K E A D A U G H T E RLike her brother Buddy, Ardis …” „… was hard to come by for a humble farmer’s daughter. Mary paid her twenty-five cents per hour to start …” „… elegant daughters Patty and Elizabeth stood out among the regular people in West Arlington. Norman took …”

2 One Tough Cookie S. 17-28

„… a busy landmark location. As her daughters were able, they also found jobs waitressing at the nearby …” „… her daughter to remain unsupervised at home. Eventually, the nuns realized Sophie didn’t have the O N …” „… of her daughters to visit unknown men alone under any circumstance, never mind modeling in a secluded …”

Preface

„… Next Door 97 7 Like a Daughter 113 8 A Marine’s Commander 137 9 An Extravaganza of Red 14710 Auction at …” „… thank my daughter Christina, who provided excellent com-pany and listened to parts of these stories; my …”

1 Search for a Marbles Shooter S. 5-16

„… talking about. She’s Franklin McLenithan’s daughter. Ruthie is her name.” The man explained that Franklin …” „… . As the oldest daughter, Ruthie also babysat her brothers and sisters. They jumped out of bed …” „… friends would adore the masterpiece of his daughter shooting marbles, pride filled him to the point that …”

15 The Vanishing Act S. 227-232

„… . Gene’s daughter Anne was nine years old at the time. “It was a horrible day at our house. Dad didn’t see …” „… ,” his daughter Melinda remembered.Gene did see Norman again at art exhibits in Arlington. Another time …”

13 A Broken Heart S. 183-198

„… Mary and her mother. She was the daughter of Dr. James O’Neil, one of Arlington’s two physicians …” „… Norman Rockwell Family Agency. FIGURE 13.4 Mary Whalen Leonard is the daughter of John Whalen, who was …”

4 A Whole Family of Models S. 51-66

„… across the street from Harvey.Walt’s daughter Marjorie Squiers Coulter tells the story of how her …” „… Shirley Lawrence Letiecq, the daughter of Dorothy, her mother’s brother Clyde Dun-lop was the first to …”

14 A Star in His Father’s Paintings S. 199-226

„… worked in their home. “Ardis was like a daughter to my mother.”In 1945, Jarvis appeared again along with …” „… constant proof of her daugh-ter’s love and competence,” wrote author Laura Claridge.23 An abortion Mary had …” „… . Erikson had been analyzed and mentored by Anna Freud, the daughter of the renowned Sigmund Freud. College …”

17 The Frantic Search for a Masterpiece S. 239-256

„… the gamble.After deciding to sell in 2003, Trachte’s daughter Marjorie insisted the painting be …” „… illustration called Santa’s Help-ers. At about five years old, he and Melinda Pelham, Gene’s daughter, mod-eled …”

3 A Serendipitous Meeting S. 29-50

„… also suggested humorous elements that Norman incorporated into paintings.A COLLABORATORGene’s daughter …” „… against the house. “He was a starving artist,” explained Gene’s daughter Anne, “and that was not easy for …”

16 Saving The Babysitter S. 233-238

„… the daughter of Gene Pelham. When they were ready to breathe life into the situation, Gene pricked …”

10 Auction at Sotheby’s S. 155-168

„… estate broker, A U C T I O N A T S O T H E B Y ’ S 161Dot Immen. Her daughter Mary later appeared in …”

Index S. 281-296

„… (mother), 37, 40Rockwell, Norman. See specific topicsRockwell, Nova (daughter-in-law), 223Rockwell, Peter …”

6 Talent Right Next Door S. 97-112

„… wearing glasses and her daughter Doris in curlers. Rena laughed and reassured Nor-man the neighbors did …”

5 Son, Model, Author of Best Sellers S. 67-96

„… only about his illustrations. Ironically, Ted Williams’s daughter Claudia also remarked, “My father was …”

doi.org/10.5771/9781538170366

No access

Select

Christy Martin

Fighting for Survival

2022

Results in this title

2 Coal Miner’s Daughter S. 15-28

„… 15C h a p t e r t w oCoal Miner’s daughterAll you need to know to understand the limits of Itmann …” „… about not being the kind of daughter my parents wanted in that way. If I could have been what they …” „… . In my heart I felt so much guilt for not being the daughter my mom wanted. I didn’t go to my senior …”

15 Down for the Count and Ashamed of How I Got There S. 185-200

„… convince the men in there to come and watch a fight between a Playboy model and “the coal miner’s daughter …” „… wanted Muhammad Ali’s daughter for the same reason I’d agreed to fight Mia. That’s where the money was …” „… committed to doing it.Like most dads, Muhammad was opposed to the idea of his daughter boxing when Laila …”

4 How’d I Get Myself into a Toughman Contest? S. 39-52

„… judges’ seats at ring-side. Sherry’s mom hated me, because her daughter and I were in love. My mom …” „… me.Sherry’s mom never felt that way. She knew her daughter was gay, and eventually she came to accept it in a …” „… , not Christy Salters, the kid from Mullens sleeping with their daughter in the next room. I still had …”

Index S. 273-286

„… Alexander, Lana, 210–11Ali, Laila, 185, 207; as daughter of Ali, M., 182, 190, 191; Mayweather, R., training …” „… ” in, 17–18Coal Miner’s Daughter, 4; aggressiveness of, 17, 21, 43, 57, 158, 159–60; as athlete, 21–22 …” „… Daughter, 16–17dressing room, 89, 90drinking, 27, 33, 73, 83–84, 113, 218, 221drug abuse, in WV, 226drug …”

9 The Fight That Legitimized Me and Women’s Boxing S. 105-118

„… daughter.” That nickname came out of nowhere one night when King’s usual ring an-nouncer, a high-school …” „… to fight and Jimmy says, “Fighting out of Mullens, West Virginia, the coal miner’s daughter, Christy …” „… daughter, and she took an interest in me, and that meant a lot.A few days after that fight, King said he …”

16 No Place to Run, No Place to Hide S. 201-214

„… treat her like she was my little sister, which she wasn’t. She was my brother Randy’s daughter with his …” „… Brittany was the daughter she always wanted, not the lesbian daughter who threw punches for a living. It’s …” „… temporarily pull my thoughts away from my problems was a fight with Rijker. “The coal miner’s daughter …”

10 Bright Lights, Big City S. 119-0

„… , my wife and daughter were like visibly shaken during it. It really showed the brutality of fighting …” „… bring along my young niece, whom she was raising almost like another daughter. This was one of the first …” „… ahead of her daughter again, and I ended up cancelling the arrangements and went alone. Well, Jim came …”

6 Meeting My Mentor . . . and My Menace S. 67-80

„… falling apart, and I just gave in to what it seemed people in my life wanted, which was a daughter and a …” „… all hours. He told my mom he was in love with her daughter and that’s all she needed to hear. If Count …” „… Dracula had told her he was in love with her daughter, she would have told me, “Good deal. Sign up.” She …”

3 The Thing We Carry, the Things We Hide S. 29-38

„… was never brought up again.How do you hear that someone has molested your daughter when she was six …” „… with the knowledge that her daughter was gay and later was maltreated by her husband. She stuck her …”

21 Necessary Endings, New Beginnings S. 261-272

„… took the microphone from the ring announcer and said, “You’ve seen the coal miner’s daughter for the …” „… like I was their sister or their daughter. I was so terrified of Marvin Hagler, who many feel is the …”

13 On Boxing: It’s Not about Violence; It’s about Self-Control S. 157-168

„… foundation or for domestic violence awareness, I become “the coal miner’s daughter,” again. I’m walking …” „… Miner’s Daughter” comes on. You can see it in my eyes. I could feel it inside as I moved down the aisle …”

5 “Want to Box, Girl?” S. 53-66

„… was going to take her daughter to see a priest. I was completely blindsided. I didn’t know if they …” „… only coal miner’s daughter anyone would have heard of was Loretta Lynn, the country-western superstar …”

1 Dead on the Floor S. 1-14

„… life.How would I know? Well, you see, I’m also Christy Salters, a coal miner’s daughter from Itmann, West …” „… me that the world called “the coal miner’s daughter.” That woman had once been a lost little girl …”

Preface

„… t e n t sForeword ix1 Dead on the Floor 12 Coal Miner’s Daughter 153 The Thing We Carry, the Things …”

19 Comeback to Nowhere S. 235-248

„… . You may not like that your daughter is a lesbian, but at some point, can’t you just accept it?Randy …” „… investigation. He said her daughter might be dying, and this is what she was concerned with?When they finally …”

14 All Done with Don King, But Not with Fighting, Inside and Outside the Ring S. 169-184

„… convinced that this was not another positive story about the rise of the coal miner’s daughter.fighting for …” „… Ali’s daughter, who was becoming a hot commodity. I kept thinking Don would eventually do that fight …”

18 A Champion Again, But Not for Long S. 225-234

„… coal miner’s daughter. It wasn’t the WBC world superwelterweight women’s cham-pion. It was a drug …”

17 Sex, Drugs, and Videotapes S. 215-224

„… to his daughters in Indiana. Jeff said he thought he’d sent about $30,000 in cash out in one summer …”

20 One Life Ends and So Does Another S. 249-260

„… she was a lesbian, and she didn’t like her daughter openly living as a gay woman either. It’s a tossup …”

12 Chasing a Million Dollar Payday . . . and Not Getting It S. 145-156

„… because she was being managed by Debbie and Carl King, Don’s daughter and son. Isra was more in bed with …”

11 Big Fights, Ear Bites S. 133-144

„… crowd didn’t get her meaning, but if you were a coal miner’s daughter you did. She had just said she was …”

doi.org/10.5771/9781538153598

No access

Select

Harriet Evans

The Subject of Gender

2007

Results in this title

1 Encounters with Mothers and Daughters S. 1-40

„… of daughters, this led me to think about mothers and daughters-the ways in which mothers convey …” „… daughters and mothers? Why not daughters-in-law and mothers-in-law? That is much more important in Chinese …” „… , ideally, mothers-in-law should treat their daughters-in-law as daughters constructs a fantasy of …”

3 Communicative Bonds S. 69-100

„… with the mother, suggestive of a mode of relatedness between daughter and mother that was very …” „… understanding; on the other, they revealed certain affective expectations and desires of the mother-daughter …” „… relatedness with the mother that the daughters of the 1950s and 1960s had not articulated in their narratives …”

Index S. 225-234

„… daughters-in-law: contending interests in the family and, 37n56; in patrilineal families, 18 "daughters' worth," 21 …” „… , 117; notions of, 35n42 Chen Yiyun, 166n23 childbearing: daughters' reasons for, 30; filiality and …” „… 225 226 ,-...., Index communication/communicative intimacy: emotional bonding with daughters, 84-90j …”

2 Lives Apart S. 41-68

„… their daughters-and maybe sons-was an experience of emotional distance, neglect, even abandonment. As …” „… structured narratives about daughters and mothers. Separations are an ordinary and everyday part of human …” „… daughters. Their reflections on their mothers became conscious referents informing their choices as mothers …”

Bibliography S. 211-224

„… xifumen :i&.i! ~ * if.; '*t -is 1f]" (Daughters-in-law from distant parts). Unpublished paper, 1991 …” „… relationship between mothers and adolescent daughters). Zhongguo funu 'f I!l:a-:k (Women of China) 5 (1999): 6 …” „… . ---. Endangered Daughters: Discrimination arul Development in Asia. New York: Routledge, 2000. ---. "The Exchange …”

7 Reproducing Filiality S. 169-198

„… with me, not with my btothers, because of the daughters-in-law, nor with my elder sister, because she …” „… elderly parents was part of their responsibility as daughters. My older interview subjects whose parents …” „… the "special bonds" of recognition between daughters and mothers that Jessica Benjamin has identified …”

5 Difference and Discrimination S. 125-144

„… wives and daughters-in-law by having a daughter.9 After decades of policies eroding the socio-economic …” „… " (Daughters-in-law from distant places) (unpublished paper, 1991). 19. The classic statement on the features of China …” „… encouraging their daughters' achievements. Very few of my interviewees made any explicit reference to notions …”

Preface

„… . Women--China.2. Mothers and daughters--China. 3. Sex role--China. 1. Title. HQ1767.ES3 2007 306.S74'30951--dc22 …” „… Gender Daughters and Mothers in Urban China Harriet Evans ROWMAN & LITTLEFIELD PUBLISHERS, INC. Lanham …” „… : daughters and mothers in urban China / Harriet Evans. p. cm. -- (Asian voices) Includes bibliographical …”

4 Negotiating Gender Boundaries between "Inner" and "Outer" S. 101-124

„… of whom lived with them and were dependent on their care. Their daughters-my interview subjects who …” „… proceeds from it enabled her daughter to go to university. From the perspective of the Communist Party …” „… the wai outer sphere. Whatever their daughters might have felt about them as mothers, the gendered …”

8 The Changing Subject of Gender S. 199-204

„… themselves-to "educate" their daughters and sons in the gender qualities considered appropriate to growing up as …” „… than of their daughters. However, identifying with-belonging to-the same gender gives the …” „… mother-daughter relationship characteristics and capacities that do not pertain to the mother-son relationship …”

6 The Gender of the Sexed Body S. 145-168

„… talking with our daughters about sex. She described to me some of the discussions she had had with her …” „… daughter about differences between male and female bodies, about her daughter's comments about the changing …” „… daughter called women's "two big balloons." Despite her concern that she had not found an appropriate way …”

doi.org/10.5771/9781461645726

1

2 3 ... 510